Proverbs 12:15; 13:,10; 15:22, 16:20; 18:17.
Even Alan Sugar has his advisors – Margaret & Nick. Proverbs is clear that the attainment of wisdom is rarely a solo exercise. All of us can be quick to form opinions and come to conclusions about issues that confront us in life – our view on how church should be improved, the problem with some person or activity, or what would be best for us. The danger (indeed likelihood) is that our assessement will be lacking in some respect and won’t take into account all the factors. Unchecked we can get into all sorts of mess.
The way of a fool seems right to him, but a wise man listens to advice. (12:15)
Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed. (15:22)
It’s why God in His wisdom ordained collective leadership in churches – elders accountable to each other. It’s why Christians are called to be part of churches and open to mutual correction and instruction (Col 3:16). It’s why being part of a small group, or a prayer triplet and having good Christians friends, that we share with and listen to, is so vital if we are to make wise choices in life. It will require humility – yep, your idea isn’t always the best! Your opinions aren’t always well founded! Your instincts and preferences might be very misjudged!
Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice. (13:10)
I’ve been in church leadership long enough to both bear the scars but also appreciate the great truth of one of my favourite Proverbs…
The first to present his case seems right, till another comes forward and questions him. (18:17)
So hit the 'pause button' on yourself - seek some godly counsel. You're not alone for reason.
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