for attaining wisdom...(3)

Proverbs 10:19, 13:3, 18:13, 21:23, 29:20

Oh to have 'the gift of the gab', not to be tongue tied with reaction times slightly less spontaneous than a large government department. No one is excited by 'ums & ers' or a request to think things over a little longer. No, we want Jonathan Ross (without the sweary bits obviously) - instant comment & opinion given with assurance and force. We want the instantaneous wisdom and wit of a West Wing walk down the corridor - the show where no-one ever said, 'derr , I'm not sure, what was that again?...' The quick-fire reply is the mark of authority in our 24/7 sound-bite media age.

But, fellow ditherers - don't be too intimidated...

When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise. (Pr 10:19)

He who guards his lips guards his life but he who speaks rashly will come to ruin. (Pr 13:3)

He who answers before listening - that is his folly and his shame. (Pr 18:13)

He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from calamity. (Pr 21:23)

Do you see a man who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a fool than for him. (Pr 29:20)

It might not be cool and media savvy - but a wise & considered response leading to a good outcome is much preferred in God's book (literally). So better to take a little time, admit uncertainty, even say nothing - than to spout forth words that fill a gap but can't meet any need.